Attentive Family Services © 2010
Marriage & Couple Relationships
My work in helping revitalize marriage and couple relationships centers on rebuilding the emotional connections and safety once shared. This involves increasing the level of emotional trust and intimacy within one’s self and within the relationship, thus creating a stronger, healthier, and more fulfilling intimate bond. I help partners grow and mature with one another, and as individuals.
I help rekindle and strengthen your intimacy by helping decrease the emotional distance in your relationship and increasing healthy intimacy. Intimacy is not just physical, it involves feeling safe emotionally, psychologically and physically, while standing on your own two-feet within your relationship. This is first accomplished by increasing one’s “sense of self.” Strengthening your “sense of self” will ultimately strengthen your relationship! There will be no walking on those proverbial egg shells, or taboo topics within your relationship. Each partner will have the inner strength to disclose desired needs and wants to his/her partner.
All marriages reach stalemates and roadblocks. Growing beyond these is the key! Many couples continue these sticking points because they cannot tolerate the discomfort of growth . Why do couples tend to argue about the same issues; repeating arguments over and over? Sometimes it’s more comfortable to argue versus grow, because we do not like the anxiety that growth requires to allow for passionate and healthy relationships. Typically at this point, partners have difficulty “rocking the boat”
in order to grow due to these anxieties, and attachment fears. “I can’t talk to him about this or it will get him made.” “I cannot talk to her about this because she may feel hurt.” These ultimately divide and enhance unhealthy attachment processes within relationships.
These situations create a burr under each person’s rear end that later causes relationship death..
A continued path thus ensues towards boredom, desire being killed, and further emotional withdraw. The next bridge on that destructive path typically has two crossways: 1) Divorce or 2) A lifeless,
desire-less, passionless relationship, that typically results in emotional or physical affairs. So, you see marriage has a way to force you to grow and develop, even if you do not want to. I help you grow towards one another, creating desire, passion and wanting for one another, so the negative alternatives don’t force that decision . :)
I have helped many couples transcend their relationships from the turmoil of affairs (both emotional and physical) and emotional disconnect; to relationships of health and happiness.
It takes the dedication of both partners working towards each other, versus the natural separation (or running away from each other ) that often occurs. I offer the tools and strategies in a safe environment that will create the healing for your relationship.
I help rekindle and strengthen your intimacy by helping decrease the emotional distance in your relationship and increasing healthy intimacy. Intimacy is not just physical, it involves feeling safe emotionally, psychologically and physically, while standing on your own two-
All marriages reach stalemates and roadblocks. Growing beyond these is the key! Many couples continue these sticking points because they cannot tolerate the discomfort of growth . Why do couples tend to argue about the same issues; repeating arguments over and over? Sometimes it’s more comfortable to argue versus grow, because we do not like the anxiety that growth requires to allow for passionate and healthy relationships. Typically at this point, partners have difficulty “rocking the boat”
in order to grow due to these anxieties, and attachment fears. “I can’t talk to him about this or it will get him made.” “I cannot talk to her about this because she may feel hurt.” These ultimately divide and enhance unhealthy attachment processes within relationships.
These situations create a burr under each person’s rear end that later causes relationship death..
A continued path thus ensues towards boredom, desire being killed, and further emotional withdraw. The next bridge on that destructive path typically has two crossways: 1) Divorce or 2) A lifeless,
desire-
I have helped many couples transcend their relationships from the turmoil of affairs (both emotional and physical) and emotional disconnect; to relationships of health and happiness.
It takes the dedication of both partners working towards each other, versus the natural separation (or running away from each other ) that often occurs. I offer the tools and strategies in a safe environment that will create the healing for your relationship.
Greg Dudzinski, MS, LPC
Attentive Family Services, PLLC
44 First Street, Mount Clemens, MI 48043
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* Create deeper emotional & physical connections!
* Stop the arguing and distance!
* Cease the withdraw & pursue patterns
* Learn the power of “genuine” forgiveness
* Feel important to your partner, in your relationship, and within yourself!
* Feel more revitalized and energy within your relationship!
* Stop the arguing and distance!
* Cease the withdraw & pursue patterns
* Learn the power of “genuine” forgiveness
* Feel important to your partner, in your relationship, and within yourself!
* Feel more revitalized and energy within your relationship!
Important Fact: Healthy, stable, and happy relationships have 5 times more positive interactions than negative
Infidelity- both emotional and physical * Intimacy Challenges * In-Law Problems * Communication Challenges
Plus many other relationship challenges